No Eye Communication.....
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Marianne Faithful's "Eye Communication" from the 1980s came to mind this week for two reasons. First, I had been discussing online domination with a Female reader of my blog Who has begun chatting on a semi-regular basis.
She was relating to me that She had at least one online male submissive eating his own seed, or, at Her command, freezing it for later, humiliating use.
When I asked Her how She knew the male was doing all of this, She responded that She heard it over a microphone.
When I asked if She was either seeing it on a web cam, in pictures, or in person, She replied 'no.'
I then went on to remark,
"Honestly, (name of the Domina), if it's not on camera, I wouldn't count on it. That's part of why I stopped online stuff so long ago. It lacks immediacy, but it also is open to misrepresentation. If you don't see it, it's not 100% (verifiable)."
Then there was D's sudden departure after roughly a month or so of largely 'no eye communication,' but a lot of text and a few phone calls.
Which brought me back to the old song by Marianne Faithful, the long-ago paramour of Mick Jagger in the 1960s. A gifted songwriter and singer in Her own right, Faithful isn't so well-known now. But She had a sort of re-breakthrough album in the 80s, Her voice turned smoky from years of alcoholic and drug abuse. Very sexy.
She was relating to me that She had at least one online male submissive eating his own seed, or, at Her command, freezing it for later, humiliating use.When I asked Her how She knew the male was doing all of this, She responded that She heard it over a microphone.
When I asked if She was either seeing it on a web cam, in pictures, or in person, She replied 'no.'
I then went on to remark,
"Honestly, (name of the Domina), if it's not on camera, I wouldn't count on it. That's part of why I stopped online stuff so long ago. It lacks immediacy, but it also is open to misrepresentation. If you don't see it, it's not 100% (verifiable)."
Then there was D's sudden departure after roughly a month or so of largely 'no eye communication,' but a lot of text and a few phone calls.
Which brought me back to the old song by Marianne Faithful, the long-ago paramour of Mick Jagger in the 1960s. A gifted songwriter and singer in Her own right, Faithful isn't so well-known now. But She had a sort of re-breakthrough album in the 80s, Her voice turned smoky from years of alcoholic and drug abuse. Very sexy.Eye Communication
I know you're out there having a good time.
Spaced out chicks, love potions and good wine.
Don't make me laugh, you're not in there alone,
There's other people's voices in the room.
Don't hang up — I didn't mean it that way,
No eye communication — always happens this way.
How can I say what I mean, mean what I say ?
No eye communication always happens that way.
I know I shouldn't let it happen,
There's no excuse — I felt so alone.
You know how it is, our lure was meant to trap them-
And then they find some poison of their own.
Don't hang up — I didn't mean it that way,
No eye communication — always happens this way.
How can I say what I mean, mean what I say ?
No eye communication always happens ...
"Tyger, Tyger, burning bright
In the forests of the night,
What immortal hand or eye
Dare frame thy fearful symmetry ?"
*Don't hang up — I didn't mean it that way,
No eye communication — always happens this way.
How can I say what I mean, mean what I say ?
No eye communication always happens that way.
Marianne's articulation of how unreliable and open to misinterpretation non-'eye communication' is really hits the mark for me.It's not just text or telephone. It's lack of simple, direct eye communication.
Though not yet a gleam in the eye of the folks who created the omnipresent chat programs we all now use- AIM, MSN, Yahoo- webcams can actually provide a reasonable facsimile of being with your loved one. Eye communication can be made, and She will know if you are alone, and/or obeying Her commands.
Not to mention, of course, actually being present with one's FemDom partner.Without eye communication, though....it's not fully human interaction. At least in my opinion.
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